There are assumptions out here that make us believe that one woman is better than the other.
And its not until a lover wanders away to a woman seemingly less attractive or less educated, less refined than you that you rudely realize that all that you thought had made you special was really something that most women have..
But it's important (at first) for you to assume that you are the cream of the crop. It is better that you feel like you are in control so that the decision to part your knees or gather up the bail money is matter of fact that only 'blessed' women enjoy..
We are more alike than we are different, but if we really started feeling equal to each other, it would become hard for manipulation to take form..
So don't buy into the game. Love your sister as you love yourself...
Carry On..
~Spiritual Advisor
Salkis Re